Change Your Life For Success
How to Change Your Life For Success:
So you are ready to change your life, you are sick of your job, the nagging boss, and the lack of money. You feel worthless, unloved, depressed. You seem to be living day to day with no goal to achieve, no project that inspires you, your kids have grown up and don't need you to make breakfast for them anymore, in fact you really don't have any reason to get out of bed in the morning apart from having to go to work at a job you hate! Does this sound like you?
How to Change Your Life For Success:
So you are ready to change your life, you are sick of your job, the nagging boss, and the lack of money. You feel worthless, unloved, depressed. You seem to be living day to day with no goal to achieve, no project that inspires you, your kids have grown up and don't need you to make breakfast for them anymore, in fact you really don't have any reason to get out of bed in the morning apart from having to go to work at a job you hate! Does this sound like you?
Well I have news for you, we have all been there and I want you to listen up... You and only you can remove yourself from feeling like this and it comes down to whether you are willing to and decide to change your life. These feelings you're having, you have created for yourself and if you want them to change you and only you will have to take action and do things you have never done before and you can start right now!
We are so busy looking and judging everyone else, blaming everyone else for our being and our situation that we fail to look at where the real problem lies...within ourselves. If you don't believe in yourself, if you're uncomfortable being around other people and you lack self worth, eventually it will undermine you in your life.
Remember the most important relationship you have is with yourself. You have to be your own best friend. Be honest with yourself, really how can you be your best friend if you don't like or respect yourself. Take some time out to dig deep into your soul. Examine yourself to discover where your true battles lie.
Often the reason why fixing the problems don't deliver the expected results is because the results are only superficial. Look within at what caused the problem. You say you want to change but you find solving one problem often causes another. For example, you give up smoking, great you have solved that problem but in doing so you gained 10kgs in the process ouch! So now you have a weight problem. Instead of continuing your journey of self- correction you give up why, because the self-commitment the wanting to change for yourself is superficial it's not strong enough, you must want to change your life for yourself, not for your spouse, your children or your friends, FOR YOU!
Mindset is a process, change is a process and it requires constant self-correction. It takes life long work to become the person you want to be and I know you're thinking it's too hard but again it's all about how you approach it, your mindset and of course your honesty about whether you really want to change. Believe me change is actually a lot of fun.
It takes but a simple decision to change your life. So from this moment on I want you to stop looking at your problems as being frustrating. Instead embrace them and make the decision to take innovative action, let go of the struggle and make a simple commitment to become the special and talented person that lies within us all!
Debra Santonastaso is originally from Australia and lives in Tuscany, Italy. She is a mother of 3 and loves to spend quality time with her family and friends, she adores food and is hooked on sailing and travel. Debra works from home as a business success coach and her passion is teaching and inspiring others to fulfill their dreams. The educational and marketing platform Debra uses has assisted in the success of some of the top earners in the network marketing industry.